🚀 Quick Start
Welcome to Ridlme — the pay-per-message platform. Whether you want to send a question to a favourite creator, or get paid to share your expertise, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know.
Two Ways to Use Ridlme
- A Paying User – pay to send messages and get replies.
- A Paid User – create a profile, set your price, and get paid to reply.
You’re not locked into one or the other — you can do both from the same account.
Creating a Public Profile (for Paid Users)
To receive paid messages, you’ll need to complete two steps:
1. Create Your Public Profile
- Go to Settings → Public Profiles.
- Choose Personal Profile or Group Profile.
- Pick a username (up to 30 characters). This becomes your public link:
ridlme.com/{username}. - Set your price and currency per message.
- Add a short intro to appear on your profile page.
- Upload a profile image.
- Set your profile status to Available so people can message you.
- (Optional) Set an Order Limit to cap the number of active messages you can have at once.
2. Connect Your Stripe Account
- Go to Settings → Payments and complete the Stripe Express setup.
- This is required for payouts.
- Payments go directly to your Stripe account once you complete an order.
- Available only in supported countries.
Group Profiles
- Invite members by email.
- Any member can reply to incoming messages.
- Payments go to the group admin’s Stripe account.
- Group profiles can have their own image (separate from members’ images).
- Members can leave at any time.
Availability & Limits
- Available – people can send you messages.
- Away – message box is disabled on your profile.
- Order Limit – stops new orders when your limit is reached.
Chat Statuses
- Hollow red dot – indicates there is no reply yet.
- Filled red dot – indicates the message is expiring soon (within 24 hours).
- Red circle with a number – indicates there are unread messages.
Sending a Message (Paying Users)
- Visit a public profile:
ridlme.com/{username}. - Write your message (up to 1,000 characters).
- Add image attachments if you like.
- Click Send.
- In Messages, click Checkout to authorise payment via Stripe.
- Payment is authorised immediately, but only captured if the recipient marks the order as Complete.
- If you don’t get a reply within 7 days, the payment is cancelled automatically.
Replying to Messages (Paid Users)
When you get a new message, choose one of:
- Send – reply and keep the chat open.
- Send & Decline – reply, cancel the order, and lock the chat.
- Send & Complete – reply, lock the chat, and capture payment.
💡 Tip: Treat replies as if they could be public — avoid sharing private or sensitive information.
Reactions & Reviews
- Both parties can react to messages with emojis.
- Reactions received by paid users may be shown on their profile as a form of feedback.
Orders & Payments
- View all your orders on the Orders page.
- Paying users: see how much you’ve spent.
- Paid users: see how much you’ve earned.
- Ridlme takes a 20% platform fee. (Example: if your price is £10, you receive £8 and Ridlme keeps £2.)
- Paying users can manage payment methods in the Stripe portal.
Support
- Every new account starts with a welcome message from the official Ridlme profile.
- Reply any time if you need help with payments, orders, or general questions.
- Response times vary depending on support volume, but we’ll get back to you as quickly as we can.