🚀 Quick Start

Welcome to Ridlme — the pay-per-message platform. Whether you want to send a question to a favourite creator, or get paid to share your expertise, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know.


Two Ways to Use Ridlme

  • A Paying User – pay to send messages and get replies.
  • A Paid User – create a profile, set your price, and get paid to reply.

You’re not locked into one or the other — you can do both from the same account.


Creating a Public Profile (for Paid Users)

To receive paid messages, you’ll need to complete two steps:

1. Create Your Public Profile

  • Go to Settings → Public Profiles.
  • Choose Personal Profile or Group Profile.
  • Pick a username (up to 30 characters). This becomes your public link: ridlme.com/{username}.
  • Set your price and currency per message.
  • Add a short intro to appear on your profile page.
  • Upload a profile image.
  • Set your profile status to Available so people can message you.
  • (Optional) Set an Order Limit to cap the number of active messages you can have at once.

2. Connect Your Stripe Account

  • Go to Settings → Payments and complete the Stripe Express setup.
  • This is required for payouts.
  • Payments go directly to your Stripe account once you complete an order.
  • Available only in supported countries.

Group Profiles

  • Invite members by email.
  • Any member can reply to incoming messages.
  • Payments go to the group admin’s Stripe account.
  • Group profiles can have their own image (separate from members’ images).
  • Members can leave at any time.

Availability & Limits

  • Available – people can send you messages.
  • Away – message box is disabled on your profile.
  • Order Limit – stops new orders when your limit is reached.

Chat Statuses

  • Hollow red dot – indicates there is no reply yet.
  • Filled red dot – indicates the message is expiring soon (within 24 hours).
  • Red circle with a number – indicates there are unread messages.

Sending a Message (Paying Users)

  1. Visit a public profile: ridlme.com/{username}.
  2. Write your message (up to 1,000 characters).
  3. Add image attachments if you like.
  4. Click Send.
  5. In Messages, click Checkout to authorise payment via Stripe.
    • Payment is authorised immediately, but only captured if the recipient marks the order as Complete.
  6. If you don’t get a reply within 7 days, the payment is cancelled automatically.

Replying to Messages (Paid Users)

When you get a new message, choose one of:

  • Send – reply and keep the chat open.
  • Send & Decline – reply, cancel the order, and lock the chat.
  • Send & Complete – reply, lock the chat, and capture payment.

💡 Tip: Treat replies as if they could be public — avoid sharing private or sensitive information.


Reactions & Reviews

  • Both parties can react to messages with emojis.
  • Reactions received by paid users may be shown on their profile as a form of feedback.

Orders & Payments

  • View all your orders on the Orders page.
    • Paying users: see how much you’ve spent.
    • Paid users: see how much you’ve earned.
  • Ridlme takes a 20% platform fee. (Example: if your price is £10, you receive £8 and Ridlme keeps £2.)
  • Paying users can manage payment methods in the Stripe portal.

Support

  • Every new account starts with a welcome message from the official Ridlme profile.
  • Reply any time if you need help with payments, orders, or general questions.
  • Response times vary depending on support volume, but we’ll get back to you as quickly as we can.
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